I might soon be starting to dream of you in unbecoming ways (see the Dr. Yes thread), but of course you are quite right and I thank you:
Quite so, Angela, and you have been very kind to me too!
However, in exoneration of Mark: He means well, and he did PM me, and I him, and he is hard at work as a new moderator.
So... it seems all is fine with Our Good Ship Phoenix.
Best wishes to both of you and the rest of Our Heavenly Choir,
P.S. Here is my academic reference to enlightened feminist practices among my peers or betters: